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"33 Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.’ 34 But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God’s throne; 35 nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. 36 Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. 37 But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one." ~ Matthew 5:33-37
Truth and trust go hand in hand. It is essential to any relationship that truth reigns therein. Again, the Lord Jesus utilized another of the six "you have heard it said" statements used in context that day on that mountain overlooking the Sea of Galilee. He used it in order to draw a contrast between the words of the Lord and the words of men. Even though man may be convinced that being a man about our words is one of the wisest things we do, we are not consistent in doing so. Through these six statements of contrast, ultimately, the Lord Jesus was trying to help the people see that their fallenness limited them in their understanding of the truth which led them to believe that they somehow earned God's favor through their good behavior. In addition, the Lord was addressing the self-righteous approach to others that we all have been known to employ. Humility is a must if we are to enjoy meaningful relationships with Him and with others.
The Lord Jesus then told His hearers not to even make oaths at all. He tackled the little tricks we use by directing us to our real problem within our hearts, our desire for control. When things don’t go our way and we wish it were different, when we desperately feel out of control and we want to force things to turn out according to our will, we use certain words or tactics to manipulate those with whom we are in relation. We sometimes even bend the truth to get our way. Of course, these tactics are dysfunctional and they never produce the desired end we long for. And, all of this does not happen without consequences. When we use our words to bend the truth, people get hurt, relationships get fractured, and trust is undermined. This is what the Lord Jesus was addressing that day. But, when we are being defined by the kingdom of heaven, we will relate with others differently. To be defined by the kingdom of heaven is to obey the King of heaven. The solution the Lord Jesus provides us is for us to be truth tellers! Once we come face to face with our tendency to bend the truth in an effort to control our world, the cure is simple, behave in the way God desires to define us with the truth.
In v.37 of today's passage we read, "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.'"
When we speak just the truth, we protect our relationships. When we are honest we avoid giving the enemy a foothold in those relationships. When we tell the truth, we will have nothing to hide. This is why the Lord Jesus said, "For whatever is more than these is from the evil one." The truth itself is the enemy of the evil one. When we only speak the truth, we will live in and out of the truth. The Lord Jesus desires to transform hearts with His truth so that we can accept the truth even when it is about us. He wants to embrace us with His truth so that we can embrace Him and others sincerely through the truth. The incredible thing about embracing the truth is that it is nowhere near as scary as we fear. All those things that we want to hide, those areas that we would love to change, they melt away when we embrace and are defined by the truth. And, the greatest truth of all is that God loves us no matter what. I can say this because it was the Lord Jesus who earned our acceptance in the first place. This is the truth, the truth that our justification in Him makes us right before the holy God. And, it is this truth which forms the foundation of everything else in our lives.