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1 Then the kingdom of heaven shall be likened to ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. 2 Now five of them were wise, and five were foolish. 3 Those who were foolish took their lamps and took no oil with them, 4 but the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. 5 But while the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept. 6 And at midnight a cry was heard: "Behold, the bridegroom is coming; go out to meet him!" 7 Then all those virgins arose and trimmed their lamps. 8 And the foolish said to the wise, "Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out." 9 But the wise answered, saying, "No, lest there should not be enough for us and you; but go rather to those who sell, and buy for yourselves." 10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding; and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, "Lord, Lord, open to us!" 12 But he answered and said, "Assuredly, I say to you, I do not know you." 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming. ~ Matthew 25:1-13
Today, we transition into Matthew 25 where the Lord Jesus continues to answer the question found in Matthew 24:1 which came from His disciples regarding the End Times. Today's teaching is a part of what is known as the Olivet Discourse which is the teaching of the Lord Jesus about His Second Coming. The Olivet Discourse happened on the Mount of Olives and it is covered in Mathew 24 and 25. In today's portion the Lord Jesus used the very common Jewish wedding to teach His disciples about readiness at the time of His Second Coming.
In v.1-6 of today's passage we read, "1 Then the kingdom of heaven shall be likened to ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. 2 Now five of them were wise, and five were foolish. 3 Those who were foolish took their lamps and took no oil with them, 4 but the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. 5 But while the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept. 6 And at midnight a cry was heard: 'Behold, the bridegroom is coming; go out to meet him!'"
A Jewish wedding is very different than a wedding today. Today, people date, they get engaged, they plan the wedding ceremony, they get married, and they go off on a honeymoon. Not so for the first century Jews. Their marriages were planned by their parents. Their engagement was done when the children were just little children. The father of the bride and the father of the groom drew up a contract. The bride and groom would find out some time before their marriage who they were contracted to marry. They did it this way so that the bride and groom would learn that love is a commitment, not a feeling. Real love is a commitment that sometimes produces feelings.
After the announcement who the bride and groom were the betrothal period commenced lasting a year before the actual wedding itself. About a year before the wedding feast, the young man and the young woman who were to be married entered into a contract and said vows to each other during the betrothal just like married vows. They would have no physical contact for a year. They would say the vows to each other and once they said the vows and they entered that phase of betrothal, they could not separate unless they filed a legal divorce.
The wedding involved everybody in their community. The groom and his groomsman went over to the bride's house. The bride and her bridesmaids would join a parade from her house through the longest route possible of that town back to the groom's house. Once they arrived at the groom's house, that's when the week long feast would begin. The honeymoon took place after the week long feast.
During the parade from the house of the bride to the house of the groom, torches were lit because it was most often done at night. The lamps were most necessary because they would light up the night skies so they could go from one end of town to the other. While the foolish bridesmaids were not ready and prepared for the arrival of the groom, the wise were prepared and they took their oil and their lamps and lined the procession. Since the bridegroom was delayed, the people slept. Then at midnight, a cry was heard. "Behold, the bridegroom is coming; go out to meet him!"
In v.7-10 of today's passage we read, "7 Then all those virgins arose and trimmed their lamps. 8 And the foolish said to the wise,;Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.' 9 But the wise answered, saying, 'No, lest there should not be enough for us and you; but go rather to those who sell, and buy for yourselves.' 10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding; and the door was shut."
The disciples expected the Lord Jesus to set up His Kingdom, immediately. They didn't understand that the Rapture would happen, and then the seven year Tribulation and then He would set up His millennial kingdom. The unprepared bride's maids had no oil for their lamps and the stores were closed. So, when the bridegroom came, the foolish who were unprepared did not enter into the wedding feast.
When the foolish virgins realized they could not buy oil at such an hour, they asked those prepared for the moment for some of their oil. We can't borrow someone else's relationship with the Lord and expect to spend our eternity in heaven. No, God requires that we have our own relationship with Him. God requires that we come to the place of brokenness and we see our need for the Savior. And we turn to Him and we trust in the gospel of the Lord Jesus. We come to the place where we trust in Christ as our Savior.
In v.11-13 of today's passage we read, "11 Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, "Lord, Lord, open to us!" 12 But he answered and said, "Assuredly, I say to you, I do not know you." 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming."
To be exposed to the truth of Scripture and to not respond positively to it from our hearts is to welcome a heart that is not responsive to God. It is possible to know the truth and to never enter into a personal relationship with the Lord. This was the problem with the foolish religious leaders of Israel. Many today turn to God when life has gone south for them. Once God delivers them from their problems they tend to forget Him. Many believe in the Bible but not in the God of the Bible. Our faith must go deeper than doctrine. Knowledge is worthless unless it leads to the surrender of self to the Almighty God who desires for the best there is.
It was the lack of oil which caused these foolish bride's maids to hear the Lord Jesus say, "I do not know you." If we have not been born of God's Spirit, we are not known by Him. Oil is frequently used as a symbol in the Bible of the Holy Spirit. Kings and priests were anointed with oil as a sign of their consecration. The supreme ministry of the Holy Spirit is to woo sinful man into a personal relationship with God the Father. Once we trust in the crucified Christ, it is at that moment that we are made alive to God. This happens once the Holy Spirit makes His home in our spirit. It is the presence of the Holy Spirit in our once dead spirit that makes us members of the family of God.